j's school just called again. seems he is still at it.
yesterday i took away his online priviledges. if he doesn't earn enough points at school today he will have no comp and no tv. it doesn't seem to matter. and anyone who has ever grounded a kid knows who is really being punished!
so now....now, they are going to keep him after school whenever he doesn't get his work done. apparently the kids hate this and this should help. i doubt it. he can manipulate any system they can create. but the best part? guess who gets to drive a friggin hour on rte 1 in rush hour traffic to pick his ass up when this happens? yup. me. and c. because there is no bus service for this kind of thing.
sonofafrigginbitch!
and support on this one? nope. you see someone has to work for a living while i do nothing all day. ^#$%&@#^%$&@$% so he can't talk right now and i will just have to handle this.
fuck.
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ok, here's the deal....for those who haven't been following the joys of raising j:
j is in a special school because he has severe ADHD and suffers from depression. (and a whole load of other labels they like to slap on him as if that solved everything) he is 10. yes, i know it is over-diagnosed. yes, we have tried everything else. no, it isn't his diet, acting out for attention, etc.
the school is wonderful and is truly the best place for him, but he just can't get any work done. he is making noises, rolling on the floor, completely locking everyone out of his world. he isn't a little distracted, he is completely shutting down.
we have tried begging, pleading, rewards, bribes, punishments. i am at my wits end. he extremely bright and knows how to work the system and between that and his legit troubles, he is a handful.
he is also sweet and funny and creative and extremely sad. and i just don't have the answers. i keep looking, but i don't have them and some days that is just so damn hard.
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