you know how it goes, you can't please all of the people all of the time.
problem is when you are one of those people (who me?) who feels it is her duty to please everyone all the time .... and keep everyone happy when they are all muttering and fussing about workloads and attitudes and who won't help who and who said what and ... and ... you have YOUR OWN work to do

(oh ... what's that? you mean this is my job?)

AAaggghhhh.. it just gets a little frustrating.